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  1. Lesson 1 - Win in Your Mind
    11 Modules
  2. Lesson 2 - Feed the Courage Wolf
    10 Modules
  3. Lesson 3 - Five Mountains and Self Mastery in Service
    8 Modules
  4. Lesson 4 - Five Plateaus
    10 Modules
  5. Lesson 5 – Physical Mountain
    8 Modules
  6. Lesson 6 – Mental Mountain
    10 Modules
  7. Lesson 7 – Emotional Mountain
    8 Modules
  8. Lesson 8 – Intuitive Mountain
    7 Modules
  9. Lesson 9 – Kokoro Mountain
    11 Modules
  10. Lesson 10 – Leading the Self
    8 Modules
  11. Lesson 11 - Unbeatable Teams
    11 Modules
  12. Lesson 12 – The Way of Mastery
    8 Modules


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Lesson 10, Topic 7
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7 P’s of Authentic Leadership

Apr 2018
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The 7 P’s of Authentic Leadership are a simple process for defining some basic things about ourselves that impact the rest of our lives. This process is essential to go through as we gain awareness of the importance of self-mastery, assuming that we do (not everyone does). The 7-P’s are essential to leading your “I” and include your personal statement of your Passion, Purpose, Principles, Possibilities, Priorities, Path and Plan. Let’s look at each in more detail.


We covered this in depth early in the course.  Your passion is the essence of what fills you up. It is the intersection of your skills, capacities, talents and spirit. Some of us know what we are passionate about without any prodding – art, music, math, cooking, service, yoga and guns are all great examples of things I have seen folks so passionate about that they either do these things exclusively in their spare time, or they find a way to earn a living from them. My passion is training others in an integral warrior model – imagine how cool it is to earn a living teaching, training and doing all this stuff myself to lead by example. I am incredibly blessed, as is anyone who can hone in on his or her passion, and align it with their purpose. How do we know what our passion is if it doesn’t jump into our head when we ask that question? By asking more and better questions! I recommend a 7 layer questioning process to accompany your 7-P process to get to the root of an issue. Here is an example:

  1. What am I passionate about? I am not sure, but I like being outdoors.
  2. What about being outdoors do I like? Well, I love the feeling I have in when I go into the woods and spend time alone.
  3. What is so nice about being in the woods alone that makes me feel good? I would say it is the connection to nature and how my mind settles when I am in the woods. I just feel complete.
  4. What can I do to spend more time in nature? I can plan more outings and camping trips with my family.
  5. Is there a message in my love for the woods – if it makes me feel so alive can I align this passion with something I do for a living? Not really, I am pretty well entrenched in my financial planning practice…that would be too disruptive and I would probably be doing a selfish thing and my family would think I am nuts and bail on me.
  6. What about some other ideas that are more involved in nature, and my love for nature, but not as time-consuming as a job? Hmmm interesting question, I guess I could learn to lead nature classes, or I could volunteer for the Sierra Club, or I could volunteer to cut trails on the weekend with the park rangers.
  7. Which of these should I pursue now, knowing that this positive and forward-leaning action will align my passion closer to my purpose, allowing me to grow as an integral, authentic and unbeatable mind leader? I am volunteering for the Sierra Club – HOOYAH! – thank you Unbeatable Mind!

Clearly, this line of questioning could have yielded a completely different action.

For instance the answer to question 3 could have led us down the path of asking how we can spend more time alone, regardless of whether in nature or not. So the passion may be more akin to doing more contemplative practices, spiritual insight seeking and joining a meditation group. In fact, I highly encourage us all to form an Unbeatable Mind local practice group for this very reason!

Asking the right questions in life defines our reality for us. After all, isn’t the first premise about clearing our head so we can fill it with the right thoughts and images? What are real thoughts if not inspired question and answer sessions in our minds? Use this process to hone your questioning skills and find what you are passionate about, then use it to help define your purpose.


Purpose relates very closely to passion, in that it is typically fulfilled in a role fueled by our passion, which helps define who we are as a human as we seek meaning in life.

Thus our purpose can be our major defining role in life. Many of us never find this, or spend our entire lives out of alignment with a purpose we may know is simmering under the surface noise. Alas, we feel we are too late to change or we lack the courage to actualize it. Many older guys who come through Kokoro camp are checking in with their warrior purpose after choosing a different path early in life, wondering for many years if they made the right decision. At SEALFIT Academy and Kokoro, they learn about this warrior path, and how they can still live this underlying purpose outside of a typical warrior profession. We can also find purpose by aligning the values of our business or team with our purpose-driven values, as I have done with SEALFIT. If we own a business or work for a business, ask if its purpose is in alignment with ours. If not use the 7-question process to ask how we can align them so we can be fulfilled in that role or job. If the answer is no, then it is highly encouraged that we change careers or jobs to something that is aligned with our purpose.


Principles are values, stated as our own personal code. How do we develop our own personal code? Through asking the right questions.  The process is usually iterative and our principles will often morph over time. We come to them through introspection, trial, and error.

The first 3 “Ps” are the most important and will take the most time to figure out. In fact, they will be with us for the rest of your life, and you will fine tune them as we gain new insights and experiences. The morning ritual is the best times to connect with your 3 Ps and ask good questions to ground your day so that it is connected to your passion, purpose and principles. The remaining 4 P’s are about aligning our actions with our first 3 P’s so that we can be more productive and powerful in everything we set our minds to.


Once we gain insight into our purpose and passion, then new possibilities open up to us. Another way of thinking about this is the possibilities that open to us as we grow along with our lines of development and attain new stages of awareness. We will be open, flexible and adaptable within the scope of our personal vision ( first 2 P’s) and within the boundaries of our personal ethical code (3rd P). When I “discovered” this process I was 3 years into my career as a CPA, hating life. The silence of my martial arts training, long runs and my Zen meditation practice began to penetrate my outer armor so that I could listen to that “still voice” inside of me. It was telling me I was not aligned with my passion or purpose. I spent many hours asking questions around what I was passionate about – I came up with words like: adventure, outdoors, leadership, fitness, challenge, new things, constant learning, enlightenment (not that I had a clue what that meant at the time!). These answers fueled insight into my values and also my purpose. I articulated my purpose at the time as “to lead and grow as a leader in a high risk, high adventure profession.” This, as you can see, now opened up new possibilities for me, some of which I decided to investigate, such as: US Marine fighter pilot, oil rigger, and US Navy SEAL. I chose the US Navy SEAL. Then I had to re-orient my priorities determine my unique path to earn the coveted Navy SEAL trident.


The goal is set, we are fired up, finally aligned and excited about our new possibility. But soon we find that we don’t have the time or energy to take the massive action required to move the dial toward it. We get discouraged and quit after a few months. We did not take the important step of reorganizing our priorities around the new objective we defined in the possibility stage of the 7-P process. Discovering what’s important in terms of utilizing our time, energy and resources toward particular goals is essential or we will simply be too scattered in focus. Time and energy are precious, so we must decide early on those actions, people and skills that are essential to move us toward our goal.


Once we decide upon a particular possibility, it doesn’t rule out other possibilities, rather it turns them into “plan B.” However, it is plan A that now becomes our path that we walk toward our objective. It’s not just about the means to an end and micro-goals along the way but also how this particular path, aligns with our purpose and principles. When I decided to choose the SEAL possibility, I had to determine my path. Every new SEAL candidate’s path is unique to them. For me, with an MBA and CPA, I was interested in an officer slot to the SEALs. There were two slots a year allotted in 1989. I needed to find a way to slip through that very narrow needle to ensure my newfound goal would be met! The path I laid out included a radical focus on my physical and mental training while taking care of the outer strategic and tactical things I needed to do to get a SEAL contract that included Officer Candidate School.


A SEAL saying is “proper prior planning prevents piss poor performance!” Now that the path is laid out, what is your specific plan? What is our flexible yet specific design plan that will most ensure victory? For my SEAL example, my plan included hours of inner work, in particular envisioning myself in the new role. I powered these envisioning sessions with an intense belief and expectation that this was the right path for me and that I had already earned the trident. Somewhere along the way, even before the recruiter informed me that I had earned a slot to Officer Candidate School with a follow-on set of orders to BUD/s, I had the incredible experience of sensing that I had actually earned the Trident already…but inside of myself. All I had to do was show up and put out 100% and it was mine! What a huge relief and sense of confidence this gave me. I had discovered the “First Premise” of Unbeatable Mind – that we must win in our minds BEFORE we enter the arena.